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Life – A ENDLESS STRUGGLE…


“If you feel like quitting always think JUST A FEW MORE STEPS ” and I’ll be there at my destination!

~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

I had seen myself growing as a blogger, as a dietician, as a writer but sometimes I don’t know why even if everything is good I suddenly feel depressed coz I haven’t achieved my destination yet…I have so many dreams and haven’t reached even half the way…

I wonder when will it happen? Or it will ever happen? Or I am just a dreamer who fails to execute dreams in to reality.Sometimes I feel to quit everything and sit quiet but when I look back i could see I have travelled a lot…Even the start point is not visible.So quiting sounds a very bad idea.And so I write Inspirational posts coz most of the times I am myself confused, stressed and depressed for no reason.

I don’t understand where exactly I want to reach? Am I on the right way? Or have i lost track? A Inspirational writer being frustrated, being stressed but still managing to write inspirational posts!

I spend ample amount of time for my passion and in return I also receive taunts. “It’s of no use just wastage of time..Are you earning anything through it? If no then leave it…

I just want to say I do not blog to earn.I blog because I love to…But my love for blogging still haven’t reached on it’s destination.And so I am currently tired of this struggle.. Though I am still trying every possible way I could but some where even a Inspirational writer needs a motivation..

Let’s see where my life takes me in this never ending struggle.

Life is a endless struggle to quit or to succeed is our choice…

~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

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Life..(A message) 


Every movie has a unique message in it is what I always say and yes I am right. Now what message do you think we get from film”Ishq Vishq Pyaar Vyaar”.Most of the people will say it’s just a romantic movie but there is a important message. Recently I faced a situation in which I wanted a particular thing and I had almost achieved it. Say 90% but 10% was my destiny and it didn’t supported me..So it went away from me. Being sad,depressed I spent 2 days. But at 3rd day I remebered a dialogue Amrita Rao said in Ishq Vishq. “If your love wants to go away from you let it go.If it comes back than it’s yours”(Agar tumhara pyaar tumse door jaana chahe to use jaane do agar vo lautkar aye to voh tumhara hai) .  And I applied this in my situation an opportunity went away from me.. So I thought if this opportunity  went away from me let it go. If it comes back than it’s mine.. And I know it’s mine only. I believe in a thing called Law of Attraction.. When I truly desire something from my heart I have always got it. I was unaware of my this quality my boss made me aware of it.His experiences and his observations made him understand my this quality. 

So my conclusion is “If a opportunity goes away from you it was never yours let it go but if it comes back than it’s yours.

And I believe that opportunity will return with a speed more than it went away from me. I have always tried to understand  the hints of my destiny and yes I did. 

Inshaallah it has to return.I have complete faith in myself. And once it returns I will be writing a post again on it. 

Think in a different way is what I say. Not only movies gives u message even our day to day life gives us important messages. Some messages to cherish for long time.. 

             ~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

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The Mystery Of Little Finger…..


Jaane kab badle hathon ki rekhayein aj toh jee Lee Kal Kisne dekha Hai…

Little Finger also known as Mercury Finger.Can it store some secrets in it?Wondering why am I discussing about Little Finger?
In childhood when teacher used to say “You can count till 15 numbers in your hand” And I used to count again and again it used to be 16.No sooner I realised there is an Extra part in my little finger. Generally every finger is divided in to 3 parts but my little finger is divided in to 4 parts..I have always seen people having 4 parts on Middle finger and Thumb finger but would like to see a person who has 4 parts in Little finger.I do believe in Astrology..I won’t say I completely believe but I do believe.While reading I found that it might be a bad luck or it might be something exceptional or it’s related to communication skills but no enough evidencess were found.Even astrologers are not sure.Trying to find out people similar like me with a 4th part on little finger. IS anyone there?

I don’t know what it brings Good luck or a bad luck?Just Wish for the Good luck ofcourse
And the mystery Continues…

Whenever I am depressed I look at my hands.What’s written in this?What’s my destiny?But Than I think let’s live in the present and not in future.

Jaane kab badle hathon ki rekhayein.. Aj toh jee Lee, Kal Kisne dekha Hai…

~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

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LOVE FIND IT’S OWN WAY!!!


Life may or may not find it’s way.It might get stuck.But there’s one thing in life which find it’s own way.That’s Love.. 

                   ~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

This is story of one of my friends. Posting on her Birthday.A very Happy Birthday dear!

Today here I have edited a story of a girl who lost faith in Love and thought she will delete this word “Love” from her dictionary.But once a word is printed in a dictionary it cannot be deleted.In her dictionary the word “Love” came twice but both times the meaning were different.First time it was a bitter experience and second time it was loving experience.So here I take you to the journey of girl to whom Love Happen Twice. And this time it was true Wanna know how ?Keep reading

Suhani’s(POV)
I had lost faith in Love coz of the Past experiences.Thereafter I decided this Love is just a waste of Time.And will never fall in Love again lekin “Zindagi hamare Hisabse toh Chalti nahi Use chalanevala koi aur hai hum to bas uske isharon pe chalte Hai. I don’t know what’s gonna happen further. But I was firm of my decis to not to fall in Love again.But then…

May month it was.My internship for my COP course was about to start.My cousins were planning for village outing and insisted me to come but I said No since my Internship was on the way.But luckily it got postponed and so I decided to surprise everyone by giving a surprise visit to village.I reached my village I came to know there’s a marriage in our neighbour’ home.I didn’t know them but my cousins knew them.We thought atleast we can enjoy the functions.In the Evening the functions for marriage started I was sitting at our Gallery at that time I saw a man “A Tall Dark and Handsome Man”but I ignored him.Next day it was “Haldi” function people started insisting me to draw a rangoli so I started drawing one and while I was doing so that person was continuously staring me throughout the function.In the Evening at DJ night as the sounds started I started dancing.Dance is my Love.I cannot control myself when Music starts.Everyone started dancing even he was dancing even while dancing he was continuously staring me.My anger was increasing due to his activities.Who the hell is he?How dare he stare me?Later I thought it’s Ok Tomorrow is marriage after marriage he will go.It’s just a matter of one day.Finally the day of marriage came and I didn’t saw him around.I was happy for that.So I started drawing rangoli but he suddenly arrived and started staring me.I was angry but I had to get ready and do some other work too and so I ignored him.The Marriage happened now it was time for the feast.Now in Villages we have to sit down in a row and the food was served.I sat with my cousins and he was sitting in our front row opposite to us.Again staring me.We were having our food slowly.Till than someone said”If you”ll are having food so slowly take the plate at home and eat”I stood up and everyone started laughing including him.But now I thought the Marriage is over.So No Problem.I returned back to Mumbai and one day I posted one post about my achievements on FB .One of my friend (Ayesha Ghadigaonkar) commented on the post.I opened Fb to check her comment but instead saw some friend request while I was scrolling I accepted one friend request accidentally without seeing who it was. Later I thought let it go.Than I got a comment on the post.New name it was.I checked the profile and Profile pic and was like Oh God I accepted his friend request.I replied thanku.He started commenting with smilies later I only said speak personally.Than we started speaking on messenger.I gave his Number coz I thought he is a Good Guy.Than we started meeting each other slowly after chatting for a month.It took us 6 months to understand each other completely. Initially when he used to stare me I hated him but when I met him I realised he is a nice guy, A gentlemen as I wanted.He liked me from before but when I told him about the struggles I faced he loved me.Loved me more.But he was taking some time for realtion coz he wasn’t ready.But Finally he proposed and I said Yes. And so I again started believing In love…This is not the End. This story will end with a Marriage.

So wasn’t it a beautiful story with a beautiful message “Love can happen Twice”

Wait who’s the hero here?As I always say Destiny what if Suhani might have not gone to village and stayed back and she might not have met him.What if she wouldn’t have checked the comments and accepted his request accidentally?There might not be any story than.But Love find it’s own way!

I am happy to be a part of this story…

Let me know ur reviews…

                  ~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

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💗💗KAL HO NAA HO💗💗


Jab Zindagi Karvat Badalti Hai…         Naa Jane vo humse Kya chahti Hai…   Hum toh use apnana chahte Hai..           Lekin Vo humse muh fer leti Hai…

                        ~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

“Kal Ho Naa Ho” a story which I started writing a year back and haven’t completed yet…Few people are waiting since a year to read the ending of this story.So here I go…
Karan’s (POV)

Waiting for her response I woke up early morning.And I first checked my Mobile.No response.She has not responded.I consoled myself by thinking She might not have seen it yet.No sooner I realised I was late.I quickly rushed in to the washroom and got ready for work.I took a Cab and was having a look out of the window.Glancing through the same place where we meet first Time.I wish she responds and I meet her back.Later I reached office..Got involved in my daily work.Looking at the clock continuously I wanted to go home..Whenever my mobile beeped I got Curious.But she wasn’t it.My work hours were over.I went Home.Got freshed and was about to sleep.My phone beeped she responded “Same place Same Time “I looked at the Clock and immediately rushed caught a cab and went to that place.I found her here and there and everywhere.She wasn’t there.I sat there looking at the waves throwing stones in water.While I was deep involved in past memories I felt a soft hand at my shoulder and so I looked back to see who it was?Unbelievable it was she. Yes she came.And I was so Happy..I hugged her..I cried and said Please don’t do this to me..”I Love You”Say something now I said but now she was quite..She started laughing weirdly Don’t know whether it was a laugh or a cry.

Aashna..Aashna Agarwal I had everything Every luxury in my Life.The thing I named and I had it.But than something happened which changed my Life…

With lots of question in my eyes I asked “Aashna say what happened?

She said “ I am living a Life beyond death”

With my eyes raised and ears wide.I was shocked to hear this.She continued

I  visited this place very often.One night while I was walking I got a call.I was speaking on the phone.And a Car tharshed me.I was taken to the hospital and was declared ……This place has certain dreams of Mine..My ambitions, My career.But everything ruined in a fraction of second “Vo Kehte haina Zindagi badalne k liye Ek pal hi kaafi hota Hai“Than one day I met You I realised you came here to suicide and I don’t want you to do it.I wanted to live but my life was snatched...”Life is a beautiful gift given by God and we should respect it”

And There is Life beyond death. I love this life too.I am a free bird here.I still write.The only thing is It’s not like before .Not everyone can see me.Not everyone can speak to me.

I cried like never before”For the first time I loved someone and it proves out to be this.Please say this all is a lie .You are Just Joking.    

“Live the life you dream,Dream the life you love”My life is finish but you have a long way to go.Take this (Something covered with a paper) and “I Love you too”.May be u might not see me after this Coz my work is done.I was still half alive coz my last wish my dream was incomplete.And Today I found someone and I have complete faith You will complete my dream.So I take a leave. Love you 

Always remember “Enjoy Every moment of Your Life”Kya Pata Kal Ho Naa Ho…

And with her soft hands she closed my eyes and kissed me on cheek.And when I opened my eyes she disappeared.I went home.Opened the thing she had given me It was a Diary, Her Diary, Her Story, Her Dream to be a writer and Note(The Story is incomplete.Can you complete it for me?)..From that day I got a reason to live.Never ever I have thought of Suiciding now..Everyday I complete her story by living my story.Even today I visit the place with a hope I could see her but she doesn’t comes.The Love of My Life taught me to Live…To Love 

I Love You Aashna. And with this sentence the story of the best selling Novel ended .Guess the author? No it’s not Karan…

It’s Aashna. Yes he wrote it on her behalf.

I guess you”ll will be wondering what’s the name of the book?If not start wondering..The cover page at the end..

So this was the Story “Kal Ho Naa Ho”.Till now even the secret was revealed why she said “Kal Ho Naa Ho”I don’t know how it is?Whether it’s good or not?.But it is what it is and at the end I will just  leave you”ll with this song.

“Harpal yaha Ji bhar Jiyo Jo Hai Sama Kal Ho Naa Ho”

Now I would answer the question i asked at the beginning..Is it a real or a fiction story?Anyone can say now it’s a fiction story..I have completely imagined it..But I have lived the character..

Secondly I know further I would be getting questions like Why such a ending?

1) I haven’t seen happy endings in my life.How can I write one? I believe And they lived happily ever after exists only in stories and not in real life..

2) I always felt the need to keep a ending impactful…

So what do you”ll learns

Dreams don’t die unless we do but there is a Life beyond death

Please Let me know your reviews

           ~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

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BLOGGING MY PASSION MY LIFE.  


I am fine or not fine.Always a Blogger.#BloggerForever..

~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

Article on demand.When u get a call around 11.30 pm saying get well soon We miss you yaar.Post on FB, write blogs get back as you are.Happy Now?

Blogging“Even a small word can change your life.And yes Blogging did changed my life.4 th June was the first day when I blogged.2 yrs of my Blogging journey and I have grown a lot.I never thought I will be a Blogger one day.My destiny brought me towards it and I accepted it
The Story Begins….

A Blogging session at my college and the speaker was famous Food and Nutrition Blogger” Kajal Bhatia“..She started speaking about Blogging, How to open a Blog and so on.Somwhere I got inspired but not that inspired to open a Blog.At the end of her session she asked “How many of you”ll will open a Blog? Almost everyone raised the hand except a few.And I belonged to those people who didn’t raised their hand coz my beheviour is if I actually want to do something I end up doing it directly rather than publicizing it…Later I started Blogging mere out of angry.. Recently I met an astrolger who said “You are aggressive, Get very angry at times and you take decisions when u are in anger..No doubt he was right I choose Nutrition in anger, I opened a Blog in anger.I left my studies and went ahead as a Dietician of Gym in anger. And I don’t know what ahead. But I am happy that I am blogging and I love to Blog.Intially when I started Blogging It was difficult for me to make people responding.No Bloggers liked or responded on the post.Though people on Facebook and other social media responded well but that wasn’t enough.Later I was about to give up the idea of Blogging.But I couldn’t I felt ok if no one responds still I’ll blog.Coz I want to blog for myself .There started my journey of Blogging where in I blogged for myself without thinking anyone is reading it or not.Or Anyone is liking it or not.I love my blogs and I kept on Blogging.I started Blogging when I just entered My T.Y which means Studies also need to be managed.I had to decide my priorities.But I quitted none of them.I don’t need to study daily just a few days before exam and I am done.I took the advantage of my this quality and utilised the time to blog and promote my blog.Every night after completing with my assignments I used to research on Blogging ..Rarely a sleep of 4 hrs.And next morning in the class I used to take naps.Whatever it was I enjoyed that phase of my Life.Where I balanced both my Studies as well as Blogging.Frankly I gave more importance to Blogging.People always say “Don’t try to keep your legs on two stones”Choose one thing”But no sooner I got this phrase wrong.I came 1st in Last yr..Completed my Graduation in Nutrition with Good percentage.

Why don’t u focus on one thing choose either of the one.I tried but I wasn’t.Coz I was equally Good at everything.And even today everyone says focus on one thing but I am unable to.I want both!

I am a die hard Blogger..I am fine or not fine, anyone reads my blog or no.I will blog.

If Blogging rules my heart than Nutrition rules my Mind!

~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

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LEARN FROM YOUR FAILURES….


Vo Kaamyabi hi Kya jisme Haarne ka maja Naa Ho”

~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

FAILURE“a small word but it can lead to disasters.Since my school times we have been reading stories of SUCCESS but there were rarely any stiories which focused on FAILURES.Today I wished to share my own story of Failure..
The Story Begins..
1st Prize- Ayesha Ghadigaonkar for standing 1st in Class, Ranker of languages,Topper,Winner of Carrom Competition,prizes in cooking competition,etc.That’s how my life was.Winning Everytime and in everything I participate.My teachers used to say a quote “Failures are the stepping stone to Success” I used to wonder how would I be Successful than I have never experienced failure.But than I also used to think I don’t have the courage to withstand FAILURES.

Life was easy going till my school days.As I stepped in to college as in 11th std.Still it was good.But as soon as I entered 12th my world turned upside down.I got the first feeling of Failure in my 12th STD.I used to wonder sometimes will I even paas? Though I passed with first class but for a person scoring 90℅ in 10th std and suddenly dropping on an average score was the biggest failure.I Failed in my parent’s eyes.I failed in my eyes.Depressing phase it was but God gave me a opportunity to overcome it.Soon I joined Nutrition Course I just studied from my heart and not to be a topper.But I was a Topper and this gave me back my Lost Confidence.This is how I overcame my failures.But this story doesn’t ends here.There’s a further story too..

MSc Story
Bsc in Nutrition and Dietetics (1st rank) Ayesha Ghadigaonkar.

The same person who topped the college failed in MSc Interview.Some people say it was not your mistake just wrong time.But No I say “If I have the Courage to accept I am a ranker than also should I have Courage to accept that yes I did failed”This proved out to be a disturbing failure.I was disturbed, Broken, Shattered.But luckily I already had a opportunity in my hand.I was already appointed as a Dietician in a Gym.And so I didn’t had the time to Cry over it.I moved ahead with my Job. Still not the end one more story ahead.

One more Story
I applied for a Course there was a selection procedure for it.A private course for Entrepreneurship.Yes I got selected.But I was adamant that I can join this course only if I am given a Scholarship.And they denied.Though they had a good reason.I was late to apply for the scholarship procedure.And so even after being selected for normal course I didn’t went ahead.But later I came to know the person who took my interview said to someone .Her interview was not so good,etc etc.But I just wondered OK My interview was not good.Than on basis of what had you selected me for the Normal Course?This failure didn’t affect me.It was just a Normal Course.I would just say Still I will be a Entrepreneur.

Job Story

I wasn’t prepared for a job mentally.Nor do I was trained.And No senior at my Gym.Only me.They assumed I knew everything.May be I did but still practical knowledge is different.I started working but being Introvert and Shy It was Difficult for me to Convince others.And a Dietician in Fitness Industry we need to speak a lot.This is not a failure. It’s my drawback I am trying to improve on it.

Just imagine and put yourself in my situation and think for a while.
A Introvert,shy person who barely speaks chooses a field Nutrition.And inspite of me knowing my biggest drawback Speaking inspite of being in a hospital or clinical industry I choose Fitness Industry.Where DIETICIANS have to be Good Speakers.Coz Gym industry is all a game of how you speak.How well you convince others.

That’s what I like to do.To Challenge myself.One thing I am not good at but someday the same thing I will be best at.And I know I will.

These were my failure stories..And yes I do stand out strong after overcoming my failures.

I just want to make people realize my value that they have let gone a right person.Once I leave it’s Difficult for me to return.

I learned from my failures.My failures taught me

Life is a constant struggle.Success is a destination.But failure is your journey.And achieving success without experiencing failure is like sitting in a roller coaster ride which doesn’t makes You scare.

Learn from your failures to achieve success.

Kisine kaha hai “Haarna jeetna Kismat ki baat hai lekin hum Koshish bhi naa Kare ye toh Galat baat hai”

Someone said”Winning,Losing is a game of destiny but if we don’t try it’s a wrong thing”

Mera Manna hai “Vo Kaamyabi hi Kya Jo aapko Virasat Mai mile”

Strive for your Success and if you fail.Just remember” Raat k Baad hi toh savers hota hai”(There ‘s a Sunrise after every Darknight)

So finally even I got a experience of failures.Can I be Successful now?
Can Share your Failure stories and how you overcame it.

~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

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WHAT’S MY FAULT?


What’s my fault?This is the question every girl asks today?

This is the original story of one of my friends.

What’s my fault?

It was a usual day.As usual I left my home at 6 am.With head phones in my ear,listening to songs I was walking towards station.Suddenly A boy came riding his bike.I don’t know from where he came.I don’t know him.He stopped his bike near me.I ignored and kept walking but then he just stood in front of me.I looked around 4-5 people were there.But they were very far.Finally I said “What’s your problem why are you bothering me?He said “Can we be friends?No I said and started walking.He started following.I pretended not to be listening to him.And Finally I scolded Go away.He asked just finally say “Will you Do friendship or No? No I spoke with anger.Ok I”ll see you next time,he said and went.I was actually scared by this incident.

I am 21 years old and this never happened before.For the first time it happened.From his behaviour I could make out he might know me.My timings of travelling.I am travelling for many years now.Most of the times I travel alone.Yes sometimes I do come late and sometimes I leave early.But I am just doing my Job.Those are the same streets in which I walked fearlessly at any time.But now I fear.Ok If I ask someone to come along with me.But how long could anyone come with me.

I thought I should Change my way But what’s my fault why should I change my way?

I thought I should wear a scarf But what’s my fault why should I hide my face?

I am travelling alone,Is this My Fault?       I am working,Is this My Fault?                     Or I am a girl,Is this My Fault?

When will our boys learn when a girl says “No” it means No.There is nowhere a Yes.

For How long will I fear?A girl who was absolutely fearless now fears.I fear as he said Next time he will return.The Next day I was walking with a fear hopefully he didn’t came.But still he might return anytime.What could be done?Nothing I guess.

What’s My Fault????

                      ~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

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TI SADHYA KAY KARTE💗


Pahila Prem Konich Visarle nastil pan Visraycha prayatna Matra nakkic kela asel.

                  ~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar


Wondering how to spend my Sunday.I ended up watching a Film.A Marathi film”TI SADHYA KAY KARTE“means What Does She do now?I know what you”ll might be thinking.What Kind of Title is this?Even I thought the same when I heard the title of this movie but after watching this film.I think No other Title would have been better than this.  
In my this article “I will take you”ll to movie theatre.Be seated wherever you are.Just keep reading and Imagine.You will feel as if you are watching a movie..  Let’s Begin than..

The Concept of this Film is based on “First Love”A interesting topic to attract  Youngsters.The Story takes you through the the Journey of Anurag’s Life.The main lead.His First love,His Confusion in Life about Love and infatuation.

The Story begins from Reunion Of Old Friends.Old talks,Happiness,Watching Old photos.But Soon they came to a photo of a Girl called “Tanvi“who suddenly disappeared.And there started the flashback story of Anurag and Tanvi.

Anurag was married now.A good family man.He was happy with his life.A Good wife,a kid.He had everything but still there was some guilt in his mind.Let’s know what it is?

Flashback

Anurag a school Kid.Once while watching Salman Khan’s Film he asked his Mother Why she didn’t kept his name Prem?Little did he knew even Anurag means Prem.One day While Playing Cricket he hit the ball hard and it directly hit a Car.A beautiful Girl was sitting in a car.There it happened “Love at First Sight”A A beautiful girl entered his life..”Tanvi” Anurag always loved her..Later she became her best friend.A friend who understood him better than him.And they grew up as Best Friends..

COLLEGE LIFE

First day of Anurag at College.Now his heart started Beating Everytime he saw a beautiful girl.Confused what was happening?And Music started playing suddenly all around.

“Hrudayat vaje SOMETHING.                     Saare Jag Vate HAPPENING.                        Asto sada me ata DREAMING”

“Asto Ugac SMILING.                                               Baghte Tula Man JUMPING.                              Vate Have God FEELING”       

Later a Girl Mohini Entered in his life.And he was confused?Did he liked Mohini or Tanvi.Later he liked One more Girl Anjali..But one day he realised Mohini and Anjali were just Infatuation. He loved Tanvi.And So he decided to express his feelings to her which he had since childhood but never expressed.But he got drunk that night.And instead of expressing love he expressed hatred.And asked her to leave him alone.She was stunned by his behaviour.Anurag was guilty.He decided to apologize but till the time he could.Tanvi left the city. Suddenly Disappeared.And so his First Love was Incomplete..

Later Tanvi was back to India.He met her but there were some silence between them.Coz they both were married now.One day when Tanvi visited Anurag’s home She found that he kept his daughter’s name Tanvi.No sooner did she realised he loved Her.

That day they met at their favourite Place.The Terrace.Tanvi said let’s express everything today.And they did express everything.That yes they loved each other but never confessed.And now they are married.But still they accepted they loved each other and will always love each other.First Love can’t be forgotten.And those feelings which they have felt can never be deleted.But from here we can accept our feelings and be friends forever.I don’t want too see your pics hiding it from someone.I want to see them with my Husband.I don’t want to type backspace while writing any message to you..I want to share our moments with my husband.Why to hide it?We both are so happy with our life now let’s remember  our past and be happy in our present said Tanvi.And she left with a friendship forever and no guilt in her heart.

Finally the movie was drowned to the most beautiful end.They were married and also happy.They expressed,they confessed and now their heart was light.

Message:-We love Someone.Sometimes we Confess Sometimes we don’t.No one can ever forget their First Love.But what if you meet your First love after many years when you are settled and happily living your life.We feel Uncomfortable when we see that person.But why don’t we accept that.Accept and move ahead.

In their Story if they would have Confessed story would have been different.But even this story is Good.

Start expressing.It’s OK past is past.Live in your present but Cherish your past.Instead of Crying over past start smiling after entering in your past 

This movie takes you to the journey of your past and later brings you to the present.

“Feelings can’t be deleted but it can be accepted”

Kitida Navyane Tula aathvave Dolyatle Pani Navyane Bahave

                              ~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar


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CHANGE IS BEAUTIFUL 2💓💓


Life is all about changes and if you are still the same person than you have not lived the true journey of life..

                  ~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

​Year 2013

My Journey began as a Nutrition Student.Initially I was not able to understand what is happening?Confusion all around.To Study Nutrition We had to go through Homesicence First.And the Subjects“Design and Aesthetics” and “Textile Science”were like a living hell for me.I didn’t knew how to hold a needle forget about stitching and So I started hating the course.I was planning to prepare for NEET for next year and again opt for BDS.Even though I didn’t like these subjects still I managed to submit everything on Time.I had no goals I just wanted to Clear the Subjects.Later Came the Exams and now it was time to study.Study leaves were given to study.Initially I thought I”ll go in College and do Group studies inspite of knowing it that Group Studies had never worked for me.And I saw few of my classmates studying seriously. While I had food,I listened to music,I had a nap and than went home and still tired.6 days for the Exam left.So I thought to Study at home.And I actually Studied.Not with Perfection I would say like I studied in my 10th Std.But It was a quite normal study for me.Than Exams came, Papers were Good I said to my friends.I had no worries about the exams Coz either I wanted to pass or have average marks.Coz my 12th Std results has lowered my expectations.With the way I wrote my papers Passing or getting average marks was not at all a difficult task for me.And so I was relaxed in my Vacations.

After Vacations

First day of College

As usual I was talking to my friend during the lectures.So one of my teacher said” Roll no 7 You have scored good marks that doesn’t mean you can talk”Everyone started teasing me “You know that you are passed in that paper”Happy I was..Further Results were displayed I saw my Percentage which was “74%” not bad I said and saw my other friends percentage and than we left.Later there was a Chaos “Who came 1st? I was like whoever it is Lucky person.Later again I went out.My Cousin sister said your results are out “Yes I said” there it is displayed.She had a look at all my marks and she found I had topped almost in every subject than we had a look together.Yes she was right.I was the person who stood “1st” I never thought that after the worst experience of My 12th.I was never Competitive and till date I am not at all Competitive I was always interested in how much I scored?Than Knowing how much others scored?I always try to develop myself rather than wasting time in Knowing what others are doing.Later I studied well and again Topped for the whole 1st year..I gained all my Lost Confidence.

“A Journey from a Averager To Topper

Sometimes your life gives you a second chance to prove yourself if you prove it than you are the owner of your destiny.”

       Further Story to be Continued.Stay Tuned..

                             ~Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

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CHANGE IS BEAUTIFUL…


I don’t make Stories I write Stories.
                      ~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

Change is Beautiful is a Journey of My life.The Changes which came in me over this years.How my Life transformed and Few secrets to be reaveled.

Changes Come to everyone sometimes they are good sometimes they are not so good but for me Change is Beautiful”

Five Year Back 2012

Ayesha Ghadigaonkar The same name But a Different person I was.Due to some reason this year was a serious traumatic year for me.And It took a lot of time for me recover from it.I lost myself,I lost my Charm…I used to smile but somewhere I knew it wasn’t my Smile.I was a Hard-working Student but this year Changed me in to a Careless,Aimless Student.I just walked in the College anytime I wish.Sometimes I went for the lectures,Sometimes I don’t.And Studies and me were like “I”ll do that later Have ample amount Of Time”I didn’t had any further ambitions.Just settled there.This is not it If I reveal the marks which I scored in my 12th preliums No one will believe me.I still remember I failed in Physics,Chemistry,Biology and that too very badly.My Physics marks(4/70).I just  managed to pass in Maths Coz my Sir being an Engineer made me practiced it day night.So even If didn’t study I could solve it.Languages(English and Marathi).I didn’t even read anything and turned to be a topper for Languages.Still instead of worrying or Crying I was asking my Frnds where to Hide these papers?They said “Throw it”Why  You wanna keep them? I want to keep them as a Memory I said.Someday I”ll look back and either smile Or Cry.Even after such a Attitude.I finally scored Average grades in 12th.But my Dad was not Happie..But I knew the scores are right coz I haven’t studied that much.Now it was the time to choose a Career.I was like I”ll go For BDS or BSc IT than someone Suggested a option of Nutrition.My first priority was BDS(Dental) but when it came to fill the final form I took a reverse turn.My Dad wanted me to do a General BSc and Study for UPSC.I thought Ok I”ll do so but Not with plane BSC.I”ll choose Nutrition and Study UPSC.That’s how I landed in Nutrition…          

Please Comment Your Views on this Journey..

“A journey from a Bright Student to a Averager”
Further Story To be Continued….

                  ~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

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LIFE OR A JIGSAW PUZZLE…


Zindagi Ek Jigsaw Puzzle ki tarah hai I can help you find the pieces But You Have To Complete the Game.#DearZindagi(~ Dr.Jug)

But what I want is atleast help me Find the pieces .Where are You Dr Jug?                                                      ~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar                 

Today I took one step towards enhancing my Professional Life.It’s something which I always wanted To Do.I don’t know How far this step will take me But I thinkEvery Step takes You at the Next Step and than Someday You will reach the last Step” My Professional Career “Nutrition and Dietetics”As I always say I never thought I would be a Dietician One day But Now I am a “Dietician” and No one can Deny that Not Even me.I was never serious about my Profession it was like Something I have to Choose than Why not this?Slowly a change came in me or may be a transformation I started Liking Nutrition.Nutrition is Something Different.The World is Going gaga over Nutrition and Dieticians are In Demand. Now it seems as I like Nutrition so I would progress in the field.But Don’t Forget I am a Story Writer Too..I write Stories with Twist and Turns.Than How Could my Own Story not have a Twist and a Turn.Turning Point of My Life came when I was Somewhere around at the End Of First year.I started Loving Writing.Initially it was like I used to write and I was Satisfied.But Slowly it became My Passion.And just as Joke I used to say”I will be a Novelist One Day” But Now I am Serious.I want to be a Novelist.At this stage My Life revolves around 2 things:- Writing and Nutrition.Both have their own places in My Heart.I can’t leave without any one of them.But it’s also true that I am also Unable to manage Both Of Them.It happens When I start thinking “Ok Now I”ll keep Nutrition aside for a while and Start Writing” but something happens which actually brings me Close to Nutrition.And When I think “Ok Now I”ll keep my Writing aside and Focus On Nutrition”I met people who say “Never leave Writing you are wonderful in it”It’s a Dilemma.I don’t know How Do I sort Out this Dilemma?Coz at the end Wtever I choose I don’t wanna regret my Decision.I want to be proud of my decision.

Somewhere I am trying to settle down in Nutrition and Writing but than My Heart as well as My Brain very well Knows there is a Third thing which I might Do.which even I have never thought of.Coz my Destiny takes me To Destinations.I just Blindly Travel.

Currently My Life is Like a Jigsaw Puzzle.I know I have To Complete this game on my Own But I Need Dr.Jug who can help me find pieces.

Can anyone solve this Jigsaw puzzle of my life?

I Love My Life It’s Just am always Confused.Love U Zindagi        

Please Express Your Views It Might Help me. Can also comment any Jigsaw puzzle of Your Life.May be I can help you. Coz I am a Good Counsellor but only for others.

                         ~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

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❤❤KAL HO NAA HO❤❤


Kisiko kuch Dikhana nahi mujhe Bas acchi kahaniyan Likhni hai Story mai Hero ho yaa Naa Ho Story Hero Honi Chahiye..
~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

Love is not the heart it’s just a part of Life is what we have heard right.But..
LOVE IS ACTUALLY THE HEART OF LIFE…

1yr Later.. Karan’s (POV) New beginning,New Journey I started living my Life again Little Did I Know Destiny has already planned a Destination for me.I always thought when will I meet Aashna But itz 1 yr now.I thought Our Story was Over.I always visited the Place where we met For the First and Last Time.But Still I couldn’t find her.Every attempt failed and finally I Lost Hope.But

” You know there’s a story after every story and there’s a story before every story”and I do have a After story

Life it turns Upside down.Zindagi ka Koi Bharosa nahi aj aaapke haq mai to Kal aapke Khilaf.And yes A miracle happened.My Friend Gave me a Website to read saying Develop the habit of reading You will forget your sorrows.I started Viewing the website I Loved all the posts Coz Emotions were Expressed than Words.Than I came across a Post
Today I was depressed and I also Know why.To overcome it as usual I went to my Favourite place.And I saw someone a Boy..A simple person.When I saw him I felt he has the worst fashion sense.After evaluating Him on his fashion my eyes glanced at his Eyes they were Watery.He tried to speak to me Initially I neglected but later I started expressing.He thought I was Happy and I thought He Was Happy but no one of us were happy.I knew he had Suicide plans in his mind and So I distracted him.I don’t know why I cared for a Unknown person so much But I do Cared.Later he asked about my Life and while Speaking to Him I broke out and Said I want to live every moment of my Life Kya Pata “Kal Ho Naa Ho”.I knew he was worried and Confused But I had a reason to say this and with My tears I left that Place.Today I don’t know whether he remembers me or Not.Or He is Busy With his Routine Life But I will always remember Him”

Not even a Second I took to realise it was Our Story.Hastily I went at the End and Had a Look at Author’s Name it was Aashna.Yes she was it.My eyes sparkled like anything.I commented Even I had always remembered You and also will always remember you.Waiting for Her reply I went to Sleep while listening to Song “Kal Ho Naa Ho”

Ab Duriyaan Itni Hai Jo Milna Yaha Kal Ho Naa Ho”

Few people are Mysterious and while solving this mystery we fall in Love with them..

This is what exactly happening with Aashna and Karan.Aashna a mysterious Girl and Karan trying to Solve her mystery is falling in Love with her.

So Guys still this is Not the End.Still they Haven’t met.Interested to Know How they will meet than Stay Tuned with this Story.Let me Know your views. Suggestion are always Welcomed.

I wanna be a writer and Yes For the first time I’m Commiting it now.This story is the beginning .I want people to Say “She has some magic in her writing”I want my articles to touch their Soul and I want them to fall in love with the stories.

Did this article touched your Soul?

~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

http://wp.me/p6ihNf-2J-The Link of Part 1 of the Story..

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PRIORITIES REDEFINED….


“From Writing Love Stories To writing About Nutrition That’s My Journey…                             ~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar 

Priorities..What do you think?What it means? Don’t you think It’s the most Important word?Our whole life seems to revolve around this word.”Sometimes we give less priority to Someone and we lose them and Sometimes we give more Priority to Someone and they Ignore Us”

SCHOOL PHASE                                            When I was in School My Priority was to Study (To maintain My Ranks) ..Coz that’s How I Grown Up Being a Ranker.

JUNIOR COLLEGE PHASE.                                            When I was in Junior College my Priorities again Changed From Being a Ranker to Being and Averager.That Phase was Completely Different.I still Don’t believe How I was? A Careless attitude..Entering Lectures Whenever I want, Bunking lectures,Roaming with frnds.My Classes Sir Officially allowed me To be Late “The only thing he Said Be late it’s Ok But atleast Don’t miss on”and  of course few people envied . I know why he did so Coz He knew I come late,Sometimes I sleep in Morning lectures But still when it Comes  about Marks he Very well Knew I could get it anyhow.But I scored Just average Scores in My 12th ..That’s a Different Story But..

SENIOR COLLEGE PHASE..                          When I entered My Senior College again My Priorities Changed again I Become Studious But this Time along with Studies I learnt To Live life..I learnt To Cherish Moments.Till the time I was in my 2nd Year.I learnt a New art of Blogging..Slowly Writing and Blogging Became My Passion..I was fond Of Reading Love Stories and So My Blogs Revolve around the same..Than Came my 21st Birthdaeee..I wanted to Celebrate it in a Different way and Yes I did it.The Only Reason I was  excited for My 21st Birthday was coz I knew a maturity comes after this age You are No more a Child..”Sometimes we behave as if we are the most matured person on this universe and Sometimes we behave as if Maturity has Not even Touched Us”

JOB PHASE

After Degree College I was Struggling to make a Decision..Job or Further Studies??Finally I decided To Do Job..Just Look at the Coincidences 4 jobs at same time..Again a Decision To take..Finally I took a Final Decision and it’s well going Currently.I am a Multitasker I like to Do too many Things and I can Manage it without Being affected.There was a Time when I wanted To write a (Love Story)Novel and Now It’s a Time when I want to write about Nutrition. In this phase I am a Career Oriented Woman,a practical person.There’s no time For Other Distractions.I already said in one of my article “CONFUSING AMBITIONS”  ” I don’t know I am ambitious about what But Yes I am Ambitious”Right now I am enjoying the Career Oriented Phase of my life.I believe “There comes a stage in your life when your priorities changes suddenly and it’s natural.That’s known as Maturity and It Comes with Age. 

“Enjoy  every stage of Your life with each and Every Priority”I redefined my Priorities at every stage of My life Coz Years Change,Months Change than How can Our Priorities be the Same?

    “Never know what is ambition it changes as your life Cycle Changes or your Priorities.Being Satisfied is more Important than being Successful”.  This Quote is not said By me..It’s said By my Sir(Shivshankar Timmanpyati Sir)on my article Confusing Ambitions and I thought it suits this situation perfectly..

   

I don’t know on which station to get down what am I doing is just Travelling through any train which comes in my path after all every train has it’s own Destination and I will find My Destination One Day..    

Are You Satisfied with the Title??

                           ~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar 

                                  

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DREAM LIFE OR REALITY?


“I want to earn but then I also  want to learn”
~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

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Learn new and different things everyday.. I don’t want to live a life which says College at the age of 18 yrs.. Job at the age of 21 yrs.. Marriage at the age of 24 yrs and so on…
I want to live my Life on my terms.. Our Society has created a Monotonous pattern..
First SSC, than HSC than a Degree and than Masters…Now I am Final year BSc Student.. After BSc What? is the question often people ask me as well as I ask myself.. But the Society wants you to follow this monotonous pattern.. After BSc an MSc.. What if we don’t pursue an MSc? Will we be successful ? Well that’s not a question our society has already given the answers ”BSc has no value” ..From my childhood days I had the urge to choose something different.. I never wanted to do the things which everyone does.. I just don’t want to collect degrees.. I  want to be satisfied with whatever I do.. Sometimes people call me Crazy just because I don’t live the way they live…

Sometimes I want to WRITE
  Sometimes I want to BLOG
  Sometimes I want to DREAM
Sometimes I want to READ
  Sometimes I want to DRAW
  Sometimes I want to TRAVEL
  Sometimes I want to WORK
Sometimes I want to SING

  Sometimes I want to make a DOCUMENTARY
  Sometimes I want to make a SHORT FILM
  Sometimes I want to COOK
Sometimes I want to TREK TO THE HIGHEST PEAK

Sometimes I want to LISTEN TO MUSIC
  Sometimes I want to write LYRICS”
AND MANY MORE…..

I don’t want to live a monotonous life …

No doubt I have few dreams in my mind but I don’t want to sacrifice the small joys of life for it”

It’s not that I  don’t want to earn.. I want to earn But I also want learn.. Learn new and different things everyday”


” I feel life is all about Learning and Exploring new things”

“And at the end of  life when we are on our  death bed..We will remember the moments which we had enjoyed not d syllabus…”

“So enjoy d life on ur own terms simultaneously do something worth which will convert ur dream into reality”

Till now I have lived my life on my terms… I did almost everything I wished.. But now I am not a teenager anymore. I have grown up…So what should I choose DREAM LIFE OR REALITY? and Will the Society accept ME? 

From the LOVER OF LIFE
~Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

 

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A Meaningful Gift…


Few people just come in Your life For a Purpose and once the purpose is done they leave..My life transformed from a Normal person to a person who likes to  write passionately..Wondering How’s that Possible?? It’s possible Coz few people enter your life to make You aware about Your Dreams though sometimes they do it Unknowingly But U get a Purpose to Live..a Dream to achieve and someone to accompany..
LIFE IS A JOURNEY WHICH TAKES YOU TO YOUR DESTINATION” Though I haven’t reach my Destination But my work is half done and thanks For accompanying..Now when people  transfer or shift itz a Tradition To Gift them Something and You”ll know my Brain works in a Hatke Style..So Even my Gifts are Hatke..
Has anyone ever gifted a Novel to a Complete I repeat a Complete Non reader?An absolutely hater of reading..I guess no Coz we usually Gift something which the person likes.But I will do it..No my intentions are Good..You won’t understand now why I want you to read Novels But the day You will Understand Probably You will start writing and that Too better than Me..A great time spent..I actually Started Loving My life and I actually Love myself and . …. … …Wish You Good luck and as I always say “Yeh Zindagi Bohot Lambi hai Kahi Naa Kahi Toh takraa hi Jayenge”

“You know every Fiction has a Bit reality behind it and

“It started with a Friend Request”(Sudeep Nagarkar)..Read this Even I want to read it..

                    ~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar