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New Girl in the City 2


Somewhere I was so busy calling myself a dietician that i forgot I am a writer”

~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

New girl in the city..When I thought of writing this article again the only thought came in my mind was it might not be like the 1st one but still it should be one of my best article..New girl in the city from a different perspective.I know I am writing after a long time but don’t forget ” You can never take out the writing skills out of a writer .A writer is a writer forever”

Here we go with this article and again I’ll say the author is not Aisha Banerjee it’s “Ayesha Ghadigaonkar”

New girl in the city is like a dream article for me. My stories , My life , My emotions all are summed up in this article.I never thought of being a writer but today I am one.I never thought of being a dietician but today I am one..I have born and brought up in Mumbai. Mumbai this city is of “Dreamers” And my story is all about dreams.

My story starts with a dream to be a writer. A novelist. I have seen this dream when I was in college and slowly this dream turned out to be my passion.But since I just graduated as a dietician I took a job opportunity. As soon as I started job I rarely had time to write. And so it used to hurt me a lot. There were times when I used to cry in trains when I had no time to write but as soon as the destination used to come I used to get down wipe my tears and get back to my job as dietician. But later I again took to writing and I was happy. But somewhere being a dietician I forgot I was a writer too…But still I kept on writing as and when I got time.But that’s not what my dream was. Today my dream of becoming a Novelist is still a “DREAM”coz I became a New girl in the city by living a new dream.I took dietetics as a career but I didn’t realize when I actually started loving it.Today I love my job and my role as a dietician. And then started my new dream of becoming a established dietician and well known Nutrition Blogger .I very well know I might not be that good dietician. But still I won’t take a step back from hardwork.And yes now I became a new girl in the city by living my new dream of “Think Nutritionally” it’s a step of me enhancing as a dietician. With time my priorities and dreams changed.

“Life doesn’t works as per our plans Life has it own plans”

You never know when ur life will take a turn and you will live a new dream..Being a dreamer by nature I find the real joys in my small big dreams. And my New girl in the City is all about new dreams…

The moment I understood my new dream I thought of writing New Girl in the City 2 coz “You are a new girl in the city when u start living a new dream”

And as I say Just enjoy your dreams in a place where you would love to go with someone special who would love to accompany and support your dreams .Well I have no one. But I love my self .I am self obsessed and I am dating myself. I love this concept of new dreams where you dream to be self established woman. Love is a secondary thing for a self established woman. It’s Ok if I am not able to be a Novelist today may or may not be in future but I am happy with my new dream. And as long as you are happy with what you do nothing is wrong …

Dreams keep on changing it’s your choice which dream you should be fulfilling”

“Be a New girl in the city by living a new dream and I am sure you will love this City of dreams”

I guess I am done with my article New girl in the city.Let me know about your dreams in comment section..Hope you liked this article.

~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

Link of original article below..

https://ayeshaghadigaonkar.com/2016/05/11/new-girl-in-the-city/

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Life..(A message) 


Every movie has a unique message in it is what I always say and yes I am right. Now what message do you think we get from film”Ishq Vishq Pyaar Vyaar”.Most of the people will say it’s just a romantic movie but there is a important message. Recently I faced a situation in which I wanted a particular thing and I had almost achieved it. Say 90% but 10% was my destiny and it didn’t supported me..So it went away from me. Being sad,depressed I spent 2 days. But at 3rd day I remebered a dialogue Amrita Rao said in Ishq Vishq. “If your love wants to go away from you let it go.If it comes back than it’s yours”(Agar tumhara pyaar tumse door jaana chahe to use jaane do agar vo lautkar aye to voh tumhara hai) .  And I applied this in my situation an opportunity went away from me.. So I thought if this opportunity  went away from me let it go. If it comes back than it’s mine.. And I know it’s mine only. I believe in a thing called Law of Attraction.. When I truly desire something from my heart I have always got it. I was unaware of my this quality my boss made me aware of it.His experiences and his observations made him understand my this quality. 

So my conclusion is “If a opportunity goes away from you it was never yours let it go but if it comes back than it’s yours.

And I believe that opportunity will return with a speed more than it went away from me. I have always tried to understand  the hints of my destiny and yes I did. 

Inshaallah it has to return.I have complete faith in myself. And once it returns I will be writing a post again on it. 

Think in a different way is what I say. Not only movies gives u message even our day to day life gives us important messages. Some messages to cherish for long time.. 

             ~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

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DREAM LIFE OR REALITY?


“I want to earn but then I also  want to learn”
~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

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Learn new and different things everyday.. I don’t want to live a life which says College at the age of 18 yrs.. Job at the age of 21 yrs.. Marriage at the age of 24 yrs and so on…
I want to live my Life on my terms.. Our Society has created a Monotonous pattern..
First SSC, than HSC than a Degree and than Masters…Now I am Final year BSc Student.. After BSc What? is the question often people ask me as well as I ask myself.. But the Society wants you to follow this monotonous pattern.. After BSc an MSc.. What if we don’t pursue an MSc? Will we be successful ? Well that’s not a question our society has already given the answers ”BSc has no value” ..From my childhood days I had the urge to choose something different.. I never wanted to do the things which everyone does.. I just don’t want to collect degrees.. I  want to be satisfied with whatever I do.. Sometimes people call me Crazy just because I don’t live the way they live…

Sometimes I want to WRITE
  Sometimes I want to BLOG
  Sometimes I want to DREAM
Sometimes I want to READ
  Sometimes I want to DRAW
  Sometimes I want to TRAVEL
  Sometimes I want to WORK
Sometimes I want to SING

  Sometimes I want to make a DOCUMENTARY
  Sometimes I want to make a SHORT FILM
  Sometimes I want to COOK
Sometimes I want to TREK TO THE HIGHEST PEAK

Sometimes I want to LISTEN TO MUSIC
  Sometimes I want to write LYRICS”
AND MANY MORE…..

I don’t want to live a monotonous life …

No doubt I have few dreams in my mind but I don’t want to sacrifice the small joys of life for it”

It’s not that I  don’t want to earn.. I want to earn But I also want learn.. Learn new and different things everyday”


” I feel life is all about Learning and Exploring new things”

“And at the end of  life when we are on our  death bed..We will remember the moments which we had enjoyed not d syllabus…”

“So enjoy d life on ur own terms simultaneously do something worth which will convert ur dream into reality”

Till now I have lived my life on my terms… I did almost everything I wished.. But now I am not a teenager anymore. I have grown up…So what should I choose DREAM LIFE OR REALITY? and Will the Society accept ME? 

From the LOVER OF LIFE
~Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

 

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A JOURNEY OF A BLOGGER…


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I don’t speak so just thought let my Blog speak…

                   ~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar

“The Journey of a Blogger” What do You”ll think??How would this journey be??Well it’s very normal and simple .. Not the one like my stories with twist and Turns..A simple Story..A ordinary story after all everything can’t be extraordinary …But I am sure after reading this You”ll will be inspired to do the thing You”ll love..

In my story Destiny is the hero…
“Destiny created a Chain for my destination I just Catched each chain and at the end I reached the Second  last and that was Blogging..Still the last one is a Bit away..

Blogging…I have already spoken a lot
about Blogging..But still today I will speak again and Why should I not??After all My Blog Completed 1 year..Let’s Begin this Story From How I actually began to Blog..What made me taught of Blogging??
So, Here we Begin..
F.Y (Nutrition and Dietetics ) Student..A Student who hardly used to speak..Hardly used to participate..I admit I had attitude I always waited For opportunities to come to me and even now I wait..If someone asked me will you participate? than only I will participate otherwise I was least interested..Now the word Blog settled in my Mind From a Session organized by our College..Kajal Bhatia(The Food and Nutrition Blogger ) was the speaker..The session was really very impressive and Knowledgeable..At the end of Session when Kajal mam asked “How many of You”ll will open a Blog?? Majority in the Class raised their hands..I didn’t raised my Hand..I knew Few people have taught that it was my attitude But that wasn’t..The reason was  I won’t say I will Do it untill I am 100℅ sure about it and I wasn’t sure that time..Years passed and the Blogging memories faded..I don’t know how But I became an Daily Fb user and Started posting Daily..and people liked it..But the Turning Point was the Workshop which I attended at American Consulate”Empowering Youth as a Citizen Journalist” my teacher and the Vice Principal Of my College send the details to me..I hardly knew what it was about..I trusted her and attended it..There are Very few Incidences where I reach Before time..This was one of them..I reached early..I saw a Girl sitting there.I went and sat beside her.For a while I was struggling to speak ..What and How should I speak??Later I introduced myself..She also introduced her and said She is a Blogger..We started Speaking as if we were Friends for a Long time.The Workshop definately proved beneficial..At lunch few more Friends,even my Juniors in College Accompanied us..They Questioned us “How long are You”ll friends?? She said “We met today and Look we don’t even Know each other’s name yet and yet we were speaking the whole day..We introduced Ourself But Our Introduction didn’t had name..Later it was time to leave and we exchanged Numbers with a promise to Stay in Touch..Sometimes we speak like If we know the person for years and some times even if we know the person for years we aren’t comfortable to speak”Few days later we just had a Casual talk through messages..A group “Citizen Journalist “was created..After few days she asked me “Will you like to write articles for my Magazine???How Could I say No?? I said “Yes Of course”and than I wrote few articles..But She had To Continue Her MA and So She has taken a Space from all this..On 3 rd June 2015 I thought If I can write than Even I can Blog..I enquired How should I begin??She said “Download apps” and I didn’t remember Much things From the lecture But I remember”Wordpress” So I downloaded WordPress app…and my First post “I wish we Could edit our life just like we edit our pics” but there wasn’t any response..I got back to her and asked How should I promote it.She said promote it through a page..
Within 3 days on 7th June I launched my Page “Being Unique”I just gave a description in what it is about..The name was just given in a Hurry ..Coz I had to name it something..So I named it “Being Unique”..Actually my only intentions were just to share the Blog Link on page..But the Description of the page said a lot…Immediately I send Invitess to my Facebook friends..I wasn’t expecting much response bcoz I hadn’t posted there wasn’t any profile pic nor Cover photo..Just the name “Being Unique” and It’s description…But I was shocked to see the Response..As soon I invited My Frnds they liked the page immediately and a Comment from my teacher “Great idea would like to see your thought” that made me think ..How Could I only share the Blog link …If people expect than I should post something and Such was the Making Of ” BeinG Unique” ..

Let me thank a few more people…
Mala mam
Arushi Raj(The Girl whom I met at Workshop)

And last But not the least Let me thank Myself..Blogging is not easy..It requires patience.I usually do all my work at night.My mind works more beautiful in the presence Of Moonlight…

That’s all that was How I began Blogging and the Journey is still Continued and I hope it Continues Lifelong….Well this was just How I began my Blog??and What Incidences lead me to Blog??But the Journey,the actual struggle of Blogging is still yet to Come..

Are You”ll inspired By this post???

                 ~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar