“Vo Kaamyabi hi Kya jisme Haarne ka maja Naa Ho”
~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar
“FAILURE“a small word but it can lead to disasters.Since my school times we have been reading stories of SUCCESS but there were rarely any stiories which focused on FAILURES.Today I wished to share my own story of Failure..
The Story Begins..
1st Prize- Ayesha Ghadigaonkar for standing 1st in Class, Ranker of languages,Topper,Winner of Carrom Competition,prizes in cooking competition,etc.That’s how my life was.Winning Everytime and in everything I participate.My teachers used to say a quote “Failures are the stepping stone to Success” I used to wonder how would I be Successful than I have never experienced failure.But than I also used to think I don’t have the courage to withstand FAILURES.
Life was easy going till my school days.As I stepped in to college as in 11th std.Still it was good.But as soon as I entered 12th my world turned upside down.I got the first feeling of Failure in my 12th STD.I used to wonder sometimes will I even paas? Though I passed with first class but for a person scoring 90℅ in 10th std and suddenly dropping on an average score was the biggest failure.I Failed in my parent’s eyes.I failed in my eyes.Depressing phase it was but God gave me a opportunity to overcome it.Soon I joined Nutrition Course I just studied from my heart and not to be a topper.But I was a Topper and this gave me back my Lost Confidence.This is how I overcame my failures.But this story doesn’t ends here.There’s a further story too..
Bsc in Nutrition and Dietetics (1st rank) Ayesha Ghadigaonkar.
The same person who topped the college failed in MSc Interview.Some people say it was not your mistake just wrong time.But No I say “If I have the Courage to accept I am a ranker than also should I have Courage to accept that yes I did failed”This proved out to be a disturbing failure.I was disturbed, Broken, Shattered.But luckily I already had a opportunity in my hand.I was already appointed as a Dietician in a Gym.And so I didn’t had the time to Cry over it.I moved ahead with my Job. Still not the end one more story ahead.
One more Story
I applied for a Course there was a selection procedure for it.A private course for Entrepreneurship.Yes I got selected.But I was adamant that I can join this course only if I am given a Scholarship.And they denied.Though they had a good reason.I was late to apply for the scholarship procedure.And so even after being selected for normal course I didn’t went ahead.But later I came to know the person who took my interview said to someone .Her interview was not so good,etc etc.But I just wondered OK My interview was not good.Than on basis of what had you selected me for the Normal Course?This failure didn’t affect me.It was just a Normal Course.I would just say Still I will be a Entrepreneur.
I wasn’t prepared for a job mentally.Nor do I was trained.And No senior at my Gym.Only me.They assumed I knew everything.May be I did but still practical knowledge is different.I started working but being Introvert and Shy It was Difficult for me to Convince others.And a Dietician in Fitness Industry we need to speak a lot.This is not a failure. It’s my drawback I am trying to improve on it.
Just imagine and put yourself in my situation and think for a while.
A Introvert,shy person who barely speaks chooses a field Nutrition.And inspite of me knowing my biggest drawback Speaking inspite of being in a hospital or clinical industry I choose Fitness Industry.Where DIETICIANS have to be Good Speakers.Coz Gym industry is all a game of how you speak.How well you convince others.
That’s what I like to do.To Challenge myself.One thing I am not good at but someday the same thing I will be best at.And I know I will.
These were my failure stories..And yes I do stand out strong after overcoming my failures.
I just want to make people realize my value that they have let gone a right person.Once I leave it’s Difficult for me to return.
I learned from my failures.My failures taught me
“Life is a constant struggle.Success is a destination.But failure is your journey.And achieving success without experiencing failure is like sitting in a roller coaster ride which doesn’t makes You scare.
Learn from your failures to achieve success.
Kisine kaha hai “Haarna jeetna Kismat ki baat hai lekin hum Koshish bhi naa Kare ye toh Galat baat hai”
Someone said”Winning,Losing is a game of destiny but if we don’t try it’s a wrong thing”
Mera Manna hai “Vo Kaamyabi hi Kya Jo aapko Virasat Mai mile”
Strive for your Success and if you fail.Just remember” Raat k Baad hi toh savers hota hai”(There ‘s a Sunrise after every Darknight)
So finally even I got a experience of failures.Can I be Successful now?
Can Share your Failure stories and how you overcame it.
~ Ayesha Ghadigaonkar